We are aloud to create other forms of relationships, than that we have been shown by our parents or by the community. We don't have to pretend to be something we are not. But we can grow. Going through the different stages in a valuable relationship sometimes requires a bit of guidance to gain new inspiration in how to communicate, how to problem-solve with your partner, and how to make sure both parties are happy and being fulfilled in your relationship. It is normal that this needs attention, and work. You can make the work as serious or as fun as you both feel like. To keep going with your flow, is always important.
You and I, we are one.
I can't hurt you without hurting myself.
Here we work together, for each other.
Start this program to start a journey of healing and a journey of finding a new way forward within a relationship - by learning new ways of understanding and communicating together.
We expect stability, security and a certain "best" to be in a relationship. Everything has to stay the way it was in the beginning. Holding on to these ideas can cause the relationship to go rigid and unfortunately to die after the first stages of the relationship are over and the more profound stages of the relationship are able to begin. Ulrike: "I see relationships as a "freestyle dance" in the here and now, that lives from improvisation of the individual. You dance it together, but you are free to develop. The music plays life, sometimes softer, sometimes rougher or faster. We grow up and mature with these different dances." What is the best way to go on this journey together? How can you choose to love again and again?
This program consists of sessions of approximately 1,5 - 2 hours per session, twice per week, for a duration of 3 months, and will be given online by Ulrike von Schrader.